• Making Good Choices For Your Life

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 10/3/2017

    Every year, I speak with the students about responsibility in the month of October. In the younger grades, we talk about making good social and academic choices. As students get older, that conversation develops into one about how a student can make positive choices for his/her future. In the third grade classes, each student completes a report card. It is his/her chance to be the teacher, and write down the grade they wish to achieve in each subject area. I challenge them to think about how the choices they make have an impact on whether the 4th quarter report card will be a source of pride or disappointment. We talk about how hard work, persevereance, asking for help, setting priorities, and doing your best determine the outcomes on a report card. More importantly, we discuss that the responsiblity to achieve the grades they have put on the report card, belongs to the individual. Students are always inspired by this activity and many of them are truly reflective as they record the grades they feel they want to earn by the end of the year. 

     

    Fourth grade students are also invited to think about responsiblity in terms of working towards one's future success. Mr. Robert Newberry (former School Counselor for South Lewis), coined the Nine Winning Practices through his company Rebrilliance. These nine principles guide discussion with fourth grade students about how to demonstrate responsbility for one's own future and successes. 

     

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    I encourage you to talk with your student about planning for the future. It is never to early to help kids think about the many possibilities that await them, and how the choices they make now are related to the future success they may one day enjoy. Success is a work in progress, and a lifelong pursuit, so it is always good to have the encouragement of parents along the way to help students identify and employ the responsible choices that lead to promising results. 

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  • Growing Our Self-Esteem

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 1/25/2016

    This month we are working on the Character Trait of Caring. We talk at length about how we care for others. We use the term "filling buckets" to inspire our students to purposely do nice and kind things for others. Part of our discussion towards the end of this month is about caring for ourselves. Students partake in lessons about what it means to have self-esteem and why that is important. Loving ourselves will help us to better love others and it helps us to foster the self-efficacy needed to achieve success. Below are some attached images of a second grade project. Each student was asked to use positive describing words to talk about themselves in this poster activity. Students could identify themselves as "smart," "trustworthy," or "polite" among many other positive adjectives. It is important to foster a child's self-esteem each and every day in school and at home, as it is important piece of the recipe for future success.

     

     

    pl 1           pl 2

    bradish

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  • Character Counts!

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 12/18/2015

    Hello All,

      Our Character Counts program is in full swing again this year and students are continuing to learn about what it means to be a person of good character. So far we have worked hard on making good choices, and we have talked about being respectful and tolerant of ALL others. As a part of the discussion on respect and tolerance, students also discuss the word bullying. We talk about what it means and how to handle it. The focal point of our discussions this year have been about following the "Golden Rule" and showing someone else kindness even when they are not doing so for you. We have read a few stories together: "The Recess Queen" by: Alexis O'Neill, and "Bully Beans" by Julia Cook (my favorite children's book author) that discuss bullying and appropriate, respectful ways to handle it. I encourge you to continue to talk with your children about bullying and help them develop and use strategies that are assertive and respectful. In January we will get right back into "Bucket Filling" and Random Acts of Kindness (RAK's) to help our kids continue to learn and grow! Happy Holidays. Talk to you again soon!

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  • October is Bullying Prevention Month

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 10/7/2015

    Greetings Parents and Students,

       October is already in full swing, and I wanted to let you know that October is National Bullying Prevention Month. We talk about bullying extensively in the months of November and December when classroom guidance lessons about Respect take place. Bullying is a hot topic in the world of education, and as teachers, students, and parents we are all important stakeholders in the movement towards a more tolerant, accepting, and respectful youth. The website www.stopbullying.gov is a great resource for parents and students to give you some tips on how you can help if you suspect your child is being bullied. I encourage you to take a moment to familiarize yourself with some of the great tips and advice this site offers. As one of the DASA (Dignity for All Students Act) coordinators in our district, I know just how important it is to stay informed and how it is even more important to work together to help our young people feel successful socially as well as academically. Happy Fall everyone!

     

    ~ Mrs. Monnat

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  • Planning Your Future Day!

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 3/19/2015
    Hello 4th Grade Parents,
        Just a quick note to let you know that on May 11th, your student will be participating in Planning Your Future Day (PYFD). This is a really special opportunity for your student to engage with successful South Lewis Alumni, High School Seniors, High School Guidance Counselors and college students. We have some great speakers lined up from the aforementioned groups to inspire your students to take a look into the next 10-15 years and begin the dreaming/planning process.
        PYFD offers a great deal of information to students about the many options they may have to choose from during high school (extra-curricular activities, sports, clubs), the academic effort that is essential to high school success, and how determination and hard work can lead to placement in college, the military, or the work force after high school. College Students come in to help our students explore post- secondary choices and also reinforce the salience of working hard and giving 100% every day in school. To drive that point home, we invite a successful South Lewis graduate back to share his/her story of hard work and success. 
        Hopefully your student comes home with many ideas to share and seems excited to begin planning for his/her future.  I hope that PYFD is just a jumping off point to facilitating future family dinner table discussions about what your son or daughter's future could hold!  
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  • RAK Week in January

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 12/22/2014

    Greetings from the Elementary Counseling office. Character Counts is in full swing again this year. In November and December students were engaged in a variety of lessons that helped them to understand how to be respectful of themselves and others, how to handle situations where others are treating them disrespectfully, and how important it is to demonstrate tolerance and acceptance of everyone. The Golden Rule was at the forefront of those discussions. In the months of January and February, we are studying the pillar of caring. Our discussions about caring are primarily focused on what it means to “fill a bucket,” showing kindness and compassion to others, seeking out opportunities to help others, and building friendships.

    This year we will be starting a new Character Counts initiative at the elementary level called Random Acts of Kindness (RAK) Week. From January 26th-30th, students will be challenged to carry out as many acts of kindness as they can in various ways. We will be having discussions all month about what you can do to “fill a bucket,” to help students begin thinking about things they can do to share kindness and caring with others.  The hope is that the spirit of RAK Week will inspire a caring heart in our students for the rest of the school year, and for life. You can help develop the pillar of caring in your student by encouraging them to perform Random Acts of Kindness (RAK’S) in their everyday lives.

    Here are some RAK suggestions to try as a family:

    ·         Bake cookies for a neighbor and leave them on the front porch

    ·         Visit residents at an assisted living center

    ·         Make someone a Valentine (especially if you know you might be their only Valentine)

    ·         Write a letter (draw a picture) of appreciation for someone in your life

    ·         Let someone cut in front of you in line at the grocery store

    ·         Shovel a neighbors sidewalk or driveway

    ·         Sincerely compliment at least three people in your life every day

    ·         Make dinner for someone who is sick or in need

    ·         Buy a few extra groceries for the local food pantry

    ·         Anonymously send someone a bouquet of flowers

    There are many more ideas out there! Invite your children to have a conversation with you at the dinner table or while riding somewhere in the car about the RAK’S they could do, or you could all do as a family. Adults have an incredible power to teach children through modeling. If we, as adults, partake in RAK’s in front of our children, and encourage and facilitate opportunities for our children to do so too, then we will be teaching our children a very valuable life lesson about the power of kindness.

    ““Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”  —Leo Buscaglia

     

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  • Right Back At It!!

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 9/29/2014
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  • Preparing for September

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 6/2/2014
    Hello All!!
      I just wanted to let you know that I am expecting a little boy at the end of June/beginning of July and so I will not be coming back right away in September. I am planning to take the first three weeks of September off for maternity leave. While I am gone, those students I provide regular IEP counseling to, will be able to access services through another provider in the buildings. Once I come back, I will resume services as normal. All other students will be able to be seen as soon as I return. There will be no classroom guidance lessons on September, but I will resume teaching about character in October. I wish you all a happy, healthy, and safe summer. See you in the fall!!
     
    Mrs. Monnat
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  • Ringing In The New Year!!

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 12/12/2013
    It is crazy to think that 2013 is coming to a close already! As you begin thinking about the upcoming year and those New Year's resolutions, consider inviting your student to join in the process. One of the many practices that I endorse as a School Counselor, is goal setting. South Lewis Elementary students engage in goal setting activities at many points through-out the school year, and the New Year is just another great opportunity for students to practice this important skill. Sit down with your child and ask them to set a goal for school or at home that they would like to accomplish in the New Year. Perhaps they want to learn how to independently tie his/her shoes, perhaps your child is working on taking more responsibility for chores at home, or maybe your student would like to earn higher marks on his/her next report card. Encourage your student to keep setting goals so that he/she will continue to be inspired to make positive gains in his/her life. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season. Cannot wait to hear about these great New Year's resolutions in January!!
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  • Making Responsible Choices

    Posted by Erin Monnat on 10/1/2013
    In the month of October we will be focusing on making responsible choices. K-2 will be talking about what it means to be responsible and what kinds of responsible choices they should be making at school, at home, and in the community. Third and fourth grade students will be talking about taking responsibility for themselves, their actions, and their attitudes. Students will be setting academic goals for the school year as part of the discussion on making responsible choices for themselves. Below is an example of the kinds of responsible choices we are discussing in the classrooms. Have a wonderful October!
     
     

    Responsible Choices at School

     Responsible Choices at Home   Making Responsible Choices in the Community 
     Being a good listener Listening to parents Reduce, reuse, recycle
     Following directions Respect Picking up trash
     Keeping hands and feet to ourselves Doing chores without complaining Playing safely on the playground equipment 
     Treating others with kindness Helping with younger brothers and/or sisters Helping with fundraisers for community projects
     Respecting everyone Making the bedVolunteering in a senior citizens home 
     Doing the very best work you can do.  Keeping bedrooms clean Making cards for seniors or soldiers
     Studying Taking care of ourselves (brushing our teeth and hair, and taking a bath) 
     Setting personal goals to plan for the future Taking care of pets 
     Honesty Taking care of personal belongings 
    Including/accepting everyone Being honest about mistakes  
    Cooperation Doing kind things for family members  
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